Just Because

Little girl, I love you so,

More than you will ever know.

Your back, your ear, your teeth, your nose

Every day, my heart just grows.

I know that there will come a day

When you’ll grow up and move away.

But right now, in your babyhood,

You’re still all mine and that is Good.

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70 comments

  1. Ruby Tuesday's avatar

    Aw, now I’m all crying and shit.

    That is so amazingly beautiful, Emily. Just like C, just like you!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Thanks! It just popped out (the poem and the baby.)

      1. Ruby Tuesday's avatar

        Just like that? You mean all the mothers I have ever known have this conspiracy to make labor seem like a big deal, and really it’s that easy? I almost want to have a baby, after finding that out!

        1. The Waiting's avatar

          You should read her birth story! I tell it over the course of two posts, but I think there was only like one paragraph of actual pushing. Yay for epidurals!

          1. Ruby Tuesday's avatar

            I’ll have to find it in your archives. I don’t ever plan on having a baby, but if it happens, it’s going to be like epidural plus spinal block plus intra-muscular plus oral pain meds. I see no reason I should have to feel anything but delight.

            1. The Waiting's avatar

              That is totally the way to do it.

  2. Twindaddy's avatar

    The love of your child(ren) is an amazing feeling. It’s unlike any other. Great work, Emily!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      My heart grew about 9,000 times when I had her, so I can’t imagine how big your heart must be, TD!

      1. Twindaddy's avatar

        It has a few stretch marks, to be sure.

  3. Mooselicker's avatar

    Awww. This almost feels like it could be good blackmail too when you get in your first fight with her when she’s in her teen years.

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      I hope we can stave off our first fight for that long ;D

  4. Anonymous Good Person's avatar

    i am sh*t at poetry. therefore, i looooove when people are good at is, as you are. looved, loooooved, this. and i love your musings on and about miss c. they’re so awesome. xo, sm

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Awww, thanks Moms. That was the first poem I’ve written since I was a teenager. It just kind of poured out.

  5. renxkyoko's avatar

    Sweet and beautiful… oh, the mother’s love!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      It is a sweet thing indeed. Thanks, Ren!

  6. hihansolo's avatar

    I squee’d!!

    SHE IS ADORABLE <3

    loooooooove

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Thank you! She is pretty dang cute.

  7. Shoes's avatar

    And there you go making me cry…

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      ;D Good tears, I hope.

      1. Shoes's avatar

        Oh yes. The tears that come from knowing the time is passing too quickly and the sweet little moments of our children will one day be only a memory.

  8. rachelocal's avatar

    Look at that face! Nicely done, Emily. :)

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Thanks, Rach. She’s a grinner.

  9. jmlindy422's avatar

    She is a cutie! Hope you had fun writing that poem ’cause I had fun reading it. I am starting to feel like C is my Internet grandbaby. That’s the only kind of baby I want right now, so thanks!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Well, I still do have an opening for a second Internet grandma for her! Lisa from A Gripping Life is one so you can be the other!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Thank you, Meredith! She is pretty cute.

  10. TRPate's avatar

    Emily, I feel that way and my baby is 31 years old. :)
    Mom

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      It almost hurts! Now I know.

  11. Bill Hayes's avatar

    I don’t normally like babies and kittens on blogs – but that is one cute little girl. Didn’t you do well?

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      We really lucked out with her! I’m not usually this gooey, either. I had to double check myself a couple times after I pressed “publish” because this post is free of snark and sarcasm.

  12. Ande's avatar

    Our babies need to hang out and start up their love connection. When are you moving here?

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Dude, you are telling me. Tell your boss I will bake him/her cookies every day if B gets an interview.

  13. Brigitte's avatar

    I never tire of seeing and hearing about Miss C and your absolute love for her. Do you write letters to her so that when she’s 18 or 20, she will know all about how you felt, what was going on with you and your world as she was growing up? I always thought that be such a cool thing to do, but these poems you write for her, she will treasure, Em — just think when she pulls this one out before going to college or some other milestones in her life. She’ll know how much love she had around her, obviously from just being around you, but that you were the kind of Mom that had so much love for her, you just had to write it down — you had that much love! Lucky little Miss C.

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      We are totally on the same page! I wrote her a letter at Christmas and I plan on doing an annual Christmas letter each year until she’s 18 when I will finally give them all to her. It was amazing writing it because I didn’t have to adopt the baby voice that I usually use when I’m talking to her.

  14. josefkul's avatar

    The anxious parent poem

    My wife and I pace around and we fuss

    As we sit at our home at 40 weeks plus

    Why can’t our damn child leave her uterus!

    Hmm… obviously, I suck at poetry. Your poetry is beautiful and so is your daughter!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      I love it!!!!! And my reply:

      My best advice to you, good man,
      Is to get some sleep while you still can.

      Here’s hoping your little one makes an appearance soon!

  15. jells @ I'll Sleep When They're Grown's avatar

    Adorbs. Baby poems are my Achilles’ heel.

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      The one you wrote awhile back made me a mess too. All poems should be about babies! ;D

  16. Doggy's Style's avatar

    Oww the poem is cute but the little one is just too precious.

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Thanks! She is an awesome baby. We really lucked out.

  17. Lily's avatar

    Awww mommy love. This is so cute. She’ll love this when she’s older. What a little cutie.

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Thanks! Right after I wrote this I found her trying to get in the toilet. The fun never ends.

      1. Lily's avatar

        You should write a poem about the toilet adventures next!

  18. A Gripping Life's avatar

    How can anyone resist that face! Love the mommy poem. It just seems to spill out of you, Emily. It’s such a sweet love… :)

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      It is the best love I have ever experienced! I mean, I wrote a poem about her. Ultimate sacrifice ;D

  19. genericmessage's avatar

    You’re mocking my inability to be pregnant, aren’t you!? SEXIST!

    When my baby comes, this will probably be my poem:

    You made my wife hate me for 9 months, and she blames me for you

    You poop your own body-weight six times a day, and that defies all science and logic

    Are your hands really THAT tasty?

    How did the poop get outside your diaper?

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      That poop is very sneaky. It always finds its way out. It’s way fun.

      1. genericmessage's avatar

        Unless she ate raisins……..

  20. The Cutter's avatar

    This is nice to read, especially on a night when I lost my temper with my own daughter.

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      I’m glad that you got a boost from it ;D Full disclosure: right after I wrote this, I found her playing with the toilet. There’s reality for you.

      1. The Cutter's avatar

        That seems about right. Humans have been on this planet for a long time, and yet we still seem to have no clue as to how the mind of a child works.

        1. The Waiting's avatar

          It doesn’t help that I’m already quite dense!

  21. Psychobabble's avatar

    you need a spoiler alert sos people don’t read this with makeup on.

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      I know. I kept waiting for the punchline when I was writing it, but it never came. Sugar sweetness.

  22. lameadventures's avatar

    Well that lovely poem redefines the meaning of “Baby Love” — which I normally associate with the Supremes.

  23. sidney's avatar

    All for the love of a dear little girl. Beautiful ~~

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      She is so dear. I can’t wait for you to see her again!

  24. mindfulmagpie's avatar

    You have an adorable, precious muse!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      She is such an interesting little darling. These days all I want to do is watch her explore.

  25. Tori's avatar

    Ah. Baby love. So sweet!

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      It breaks my heart that she’s growing so fast!

  26. harperfaulkner's avatar

    She has your nose, but not your teeth. HF

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Hehehe I hope she never gets my teeth. I had to wear braces for 2 years.

  27. Vyvacious's avatar

    I love this poem. She’s going to really enjoy going through your blog later when she’s older :)

    1. The Waiting's avatar

      Thanks, Vy. I hope she does.

  28. The Hook's avatar

    Are you a proud mommy or what?

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